The bitch!

Assallamualaikum buat semua,

Renunganlah buat sejenak kesah "Paku di diding hati mu"...... Moga ia sidikit sebanyak memberi kesedaran pada diri kita yang sering melukakan hati insan insan yang terdekat dengan kita. Sering kita lupa kadang kala kemarahan kita, perkataan yang kita luahkan dan kelemahan kita dalam mengawal situasi membuat orang tersinggung. Kisah dari kemarahan itu lah yang memecahkan hubungan baik antara keluarga, saudara dan teman.........

PAKU DI DINDING HATIMU..

Ada seorang pemuda yang sangat pemarah. Dia sering tidak dapat mengawal kemarahannya walaupun ianya hanya satu masalah kecil sahaja. Pada suatu hari, bapanya telah menghadiahkannya dengan seguni paku.
"Untuk apakah paku-paku ini ayah?" tanya pemuda tersebut.
"Setiap kali kamu marah, kamu pakulah tembok batu di hadapan rumah kita ini, bagi melepaskan kemarahan mu" jawab ayahnya".

Pada hari yang pertama sahaja, pemuda itu telah memaku sebanyak 37 batang paku pada tembok batu
tersebut. Selepas beberapa minggu, setelah dia dapat mengurangkan kemarahannya, jumlah paku yang digunakan juga berkurangan.

Dia mendapati, adalah lebih mudah mengawal kemarahannya dari memukul paku menembusi tembok batu tersebut. Akhirnya tibalah pada suatu hari, dimana pemuda tersebut tidak marah, walau sekali pun.
Dia pun memberitahu ayahnya mengenai perkara tersebut dengan gembira. Bapanya mengucapkan tahniah dan menyuruh dia mencabut kembali paku itu satu persatu, pada setiap hari yang ia lalui tanpa kemarahan.

Hari berganti hari, dan akhirnya dia berjaya mencabut kesemua paku-paku tersebut. Pemuda tersebut lantas memberitahu perkara tersebut kepada bapanya dengan bangganya.

Bapanya lantas memimpin tangannya ke tembok tersebut dan berkata "Kau telah melakukannya dengan baik, anakku, tetapi lihatlah kesan lubang-lubang di tembok batu tersebut, tembok itu tidak akan kelihatan sama lagi
seperti sebelumnya. Bila kau menyatakan sesuatu atau melakukan sesuatu ketika marah, ianya akan meninggalkan kesan parut dan luka, sama seperti ini. Kau boleh menikam seseorang dengan pisau dan membunuhnya. Tetapi ingatlah, tak kesah berapa kali kau memohon maaf dan menyesal atas perbuatam mu,
namun lukanya masih tetap ada. Luka di hati adalah lebih pedih dari luka fizikal. Keluarga adalah permata yang sukar dicari. Mereka membuatkan kamu ketawa dan menggalakan mu ke arah kejayaan. Keluarga juga adalah pendengar, tempat berkongsi suka dan duka dan sentiasa membuka hati mereka untuk kamu.

"Maafkan saya sekiranya saya pernah meninggalkan kesan berlubang di dinding hati kamu sekian."

"ALLAH did not promise that life would be easy,but HE did promise to go with you..every step of your life,with HIM by your side."

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" dan kisahku yang masih panjang,

menambahkan berat mata yang memandang

lantas ku pendam, ku putuskan ...Biarlah Rahsia "

tak tahu kenapa rangkap lagu Biarlah Rahsia, masih menjadi

penawar setia, masih menjadi ungkapan madah penawar duka...

masih setia menjadi bait mutiara...i just love the line and suits me the most

terima kasih kak siti...( macam kenal rapat je ) hahahah...

Been searching for a new working environment, i just belief that i can do better

with my PR. aku taknak duduk kebosanan. rasa macam dianaktirikan...

macam mana aku nak belajar menjadi Safety Supervisor yng berjaya.

Sedangkan minat yang cuba ku pupuk semakin tandus kegersangan.

makin rapuh dek makan anai anai minda.

aku masih berkeje disini, masalah yang aku hadapi - keserasian dan kesesuaian.

aku cuba serasikan diri, malahan payah, menjadikan aku manusia yang paling malas untuk bertugas saban hari, padahal aku tak begini nyer pegh pemalas...

so aku belief yg aku tak productive langsung, nak buat macam mana aku dah cuba...

masalah aku, sukar untuk bangun awal pagi, kol 550pagi nak kena bangun, mandi siap sedia jalan kaki ke JP untuk naik transport yg katanya datang 630 pagi padahal kol 626pagi...tak maut ke?? lambat seminit da kena tinggal bas pastuh nak kena naik teksi..sanggup?? macam gini..kaya boleh jadi kayap...

kedua, kebanyakan abg abg lobang yg berkeje...kononya kerje kau jangan ganggu kejer aku, padahal keje dibawah satu bumbung, ko perlukan aku utnuk menjaga keselamatan, dan kerana tidak berkesesuaian dengan aku yg ramah nak mampus mebuat aku menjadi manusia paling BODOH tapi tak hina ok...

aku perlukan perkejeaan baru seperti mana aku buat di Ciscorecall...

apa yg menyebabkan aku meninggalkan CR kerana gaji yg aku rasa tidak bebaloi kedua aku masih lagi contract staff...rugi kan...rugila...

biasala mana nak mengaku kehilangan aku...- wahh ego siakk mokta...

damn!!!...

Masalah masalah now tgh perdana semi season cuma tinggal 2 hari je ...

but den alhamdulilah set da ok...cuma perlukan touch make up, supaya nampak anggun...

nie pun tgh stress nie - raya nak dekat, duit zakat budak2...arghhhh

jid nya wedding nak dekat, tempat berkat ...arghhhhhh

baju untuk Sunday tak siap, macam mana nak tangkap glamerr....

mampus2....nie semua perlukan duit yang banyak............

aku perlukan perkerjaan baru ...

ya allah, hambamu inginkan perkerjaan yg serasi dan sesuai dan mendatang rezeki yg halal melalui hasil titik peluh dengan penuh berkat. Ya allah, semoga perkerjaan baru ni dapat meringkan beban orang tua dan adik beradik ku lain.

Smoga aku dijauhkan dari dizalimi dan menzalimi, berikan lalu rezeki yg murah, elakkan diri aku dari belenggu hutang, umpat keji, hasad dengki sesama sendiri.

Semoga aku diterapkan sifat murni dan menjadi hambamu yg taat akan perintahmu...

ya allah kepadamu ku bermohon agar impian ku dikabul dan juga akan aku berusaha...

alfateha..............

Kawan2...doakan anak seni masuk final k........

- idam ingin jadi sorang bintang -

gamba nie nak share kat smua orang.........

woiiiii....bayangkan la kalau kita dok sibuk

tup tup buka pinta dia kat depan mata...

makkk oiii...apa nak buat ekhh...

pk pk...hahhaha

ASSALAMUALAIKUM WR WB.....

SELAMAT MENYAMBUT RAMADHAN AL MUBARAK.
SEMOGA IBADAH PUASA KALI INI MENDAPAT RAHMAT & BERKAH DARI ALLAH SWT...... AMINNNNNN….YBA

JANGAN CURI2 MAKAN ..... JANGAN MALAS KERJA ..... JANGAN BANYAK MAEN GAME ...... JANGAN ASIK TIDUR ......
JANGAN ASIK TUNJUK GIGI
BANYAK2 LA BERSABAR...... MENUNGGU WAKTU BERBUKA .........

BYE2..........
SELAMAT MENJALANKAN IBADAH PUASA

Selamat Sejahtera ,

Sexy Diva.......

Sumthing to share -----

Lesson in Life

Our only Parents...

Daughter-In-Law:'When I cooked food which are blend, you will grumble
that they are tasteless. Now that I have cooked saltier, you co mplained
that you can't swallow this at all! What exactly do you want?'

When the son came back, the mother immediately ate the food without a
word. She stared at him.

The son took a taste on his mother's food and spitted out immediately. He
ranted at his wife,' Didn't I told you that my
mother cannot take too salty food?!'

The wife shouted,'OK! She's your mum! You cook for her in future!'
After saying that, she stormed into their room angrily.

Feeling helpless, the son told the mother,'Mum, don't eat this anymore. I
will cook you a bowl of noodles.'

The mother said,'Son, you have something to tell me? Don't keep
everything to yourself.'

Son:'Mum, I am going to get promoted soon and my upcoming working
schedule will be very, very tight....and as for my wife...ummm...she said
she will be going out to work....'

The mother understood what he meant and said in a begging
manner,'Son,please don't send me to the Old Folks' Home..'

The son remained silent and tried to think of a good reason to persuade
her mother.

Then he said,' There is nothing wrong with the Old Folks' Home. Once
my wife had went out to work, no one will serve you as well as the Home
which provides you meals and care. It would definitely much better than
being at home.'

The son went for a bath after that and went into the Study Room.. He
looked out from the windows and thought back and hesitated a while....

His mother has been remaining as a widow since she was young with him,and
brought him up painstakingly, solely.

She tried all means to earn as much as she could, in order to support
him in studying overseas. Yet she expected nothing nor used her past
painful experience to threaten his son to be filial.

While now, his wife is threatening him with the stake of their
marriage.

'Should I send my Mum to the Home?' He asked himself.

'The only person who will accompany you till the end of your life would be
your wife..' said a friend before.

'Your mother is in old age now, and if she's lucky,she might be able
to live for a few more years longer. Why not be filial to her for this
period of time? reminded by some relatives.

He was stuck in a dilemma. He did not want to think anymore, in order
not to affect his decision.

The son found a Home with high standards, built on a beautiful and
transquil mountain top. He told himself that he would feel much better
when the more he spent.

When the son helped his mother into the lobby of the Home, the 42' TV
was turned on. The programme shown on screen was a comedy. But no one was
laughing.

A few old folks, dressed similarly in clothing, were sitting there, in a
daze. There was one who was sitting improperly on a sofa, there was one
who was bending down to pick up a piece of biscuit from the floor, there
was one who was talking to himself...

The son knew that his mother likes sunlight, so he chose a room with
ample sun rays shining into the room. By viewing out from the room, was a
big piece of greenery scene. Few nurses were wheeling some old folks out
for some fresh air.

It was so pathetic of silence in the background. The sun would still need
to set down.

Soon it was dusk.

The son told the mother,'Mum, I am leaving.'

The mother waved to him to say goodbye, opening her toothless mouth..

He turned back to look at his mother. She was full of grey hair and
wrinkled skin with deep set eyes...

He found that she was really old.

He remembered when he was six, due to some circumstances, his mother
cannot bring him along with her thus temporarily placed him at a
relative's home for few days. He recalled hugging his mother's
thigh and begged her not to leave him alone. In the end, his mother
never leave him alone and decide to stay with him.

He stopped thinking and left.

When he returned home, his wife and his mother-in-law were busy
discarding things from his mother's room, happily.

One of the discarded item was his tall trophy which he won as First
Prize when he was young. He wrote an essay on 'MY MOTHER'.

The second item discarded was a dictionary. That was the first gift
from his mother, who scrimped and saved for a month in order to buy for
him.

He shouted,'Enough! Stop discarding anymore!'

His mother-in-law cried,' There were so much rubbish. If don't
discard, there would not be any place for my stuff..'

His wife continued,'Yeah! Need to dump away that old, stinky bed of
your mum too. We will buy a new bed for my mum later,'

He saw some pictures from the stack..they were taken at a zoo and
amusement park when his mother brought him there.

'These are precious belongings of my Mum! You can't discard them!'

'What sort of attitude is this? I demand you to apologise to my Mum
NOW!' ranted the wife.

The husband said,' When I got married with you, that showed that I
will love your Mum too. But why can't you do the same too?'

He went back to the Home and saw his mother weeping in between her
frail legs. She was missing the moments when her son would apply ointment
for her every night...

The son kneeled before her and said,'Mum, here I come. I brought the
ointment too.'

The mother said,' I will apply it myself, Son! You still need to work
tomorrow. Go home, Son!'

Son said,'Mum, please forgive me! Let's go home!'

Hope this is inspirational and touching to you.
Without our parents, we won't be here.
No parents will resort to harm their own children.
They only want the benefits for them.

For Daughters & Sons: Please remember to return gratitude to your dads
and mums.

For Daughter-In-Laws & Sons-In-Laws: Please love your in laws as you
did to your parents, coz without them, you will not find your
partners...they are parents too..

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Datuk Dr. Fadilah Kamsah used to say Ada orang datang ke pejabat dengan perasaan penuh gembira & ceria, ada datang dengan perasaan 'biasa' dan ada datang dengan perasaan serba tak kena '.. Ingat lah, sesiapa yang datang hanya dengan perasaan 'biasa' saja, hasilnya adalah 'biasa' saja, sesiapa yang datang dengan ceria, hasilnya akan jadi lebih daripada biasa ataupun luar biasa. Bekerja la dengan ceria agar menghasilkan produktiviti yang luar biasa yang akan menggembirakan orang di sekeliling kita. Semoga hasil itu akan mendapat keberkatan insyallah...

Jadi renungi lah :-

1. Ada antara kita datang ke pejabat hanya memenuhi tanggung jawab
'DATANG BEKERJA' tapi hampeh, hasilnya macam kita 'TAK DATANG' kerja

2. Ada kala kita rasa kita BUSY giler, rupanya kita hanya 'KELAM KABUT'.

3. Adakala kita rasa kita PERIHATIN', tapi rupanya kita BUSY BODY

4. Adakala kita rasa kita OPENMINDED and OUTSPOKEN tapi rupanya kita KURANG PENG'AJAR'AN.

5. Adakala kita rasa kita berpemikiran KRITIS rupanya kita hanya lebih kepada KRITIK yang mencipta KRISIS.

6. Adakala kita rasa kita ingin menjadi LEBIH MESRA tapi rupanya kita di lihat lebih MENGADA

7. Adakala kita suka bertanya 'KENAPA DIA NI MCM TAKDE KEJE', adalah lebih baik kita tanya 'APA LAGI KEJE YANG AKU BOLEH BUAT'

Pejam mata dan renung lah diri, kalau kita perlu melakukan ANJAKAN PARADIGMA, maka lakukanlah.. .Segera, tapi manusia tetap manusia..sukar untuk berubah kerana kita selalu beranggapan kita lebih baik...adakah dengan merasakan itu kita sememangnya terbaik?

Maka untuk itu , mari kita mula senyum, ceria, mesra sesama kita dan tingkat kerjasama dalam kerja, tak rugi kita semai rasa 'kekeluargaan' dalam tugasan..kalau kita kurang kerja, cari la kerja membantu teman-teman yang lain.

Tak dapat gaji lebih pun tak apa sebab pahala dapat..kita draw kat akhirat nanti...tapi kalau kita asyik dengki mendengki..nasib la sebab dah ditentukan jalan yang sukar itu yang kita pilih..Renungi lah, berapa orang kawan kita dan berapa orang lawan kita, nescaya itu la kayu pengukur diri yang sebaiknya...

'mengkritik tidak bererti menentang,
menyetujui tidak semestinya menyokong,
menegur tidak bermakna membenci,
dan berbeza pendapat adalah kawan berfikir yang baik'

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