Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the
person we LoVe we fail to recognize & appreciate
the people who LoVe us.
We miss out on so many beautiful things & simply
because we allow ourselves to been slaved by our
own selfish concerns.
Go for the man of deeds & not for the man of words
for you will find rewarding happiness not with the
man you LoVe but the man who LoVes you more.
The best LoVers are those who are capable of
LoVing from a distance, far enough to allow the
other person to grow, but never too far to feel the
LoVe deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to
stop LoVing, it only means that you allow that
person to find his own happiness without expecting
him to come back.
Letting go is not just setting the other person free,
but it is also setting yourself free from all
bitterness, hatred, & anger that keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength &
weaken your faith & never allow pain to dishearten
you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing
it.
You may found peace in just LoVing someone from
a distance not expecting anything in return.
But be careful, for this can sustain life but can
never give enough room for us to grow.
We can all survive with just beautiful memories of
the past but real peace & happiness come only
with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance
upon someone so nice & beautiful and we just find
ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that
person.
This feeling soon become a part of our everyday
lives & eventually consumes our thoughts & actions
The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that
this person feels nothing more for us than just a
friendship.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed & be
closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded
& we end up being sorry for ourselves.
You don't have to forget someone you LoVe.
What you need to learn is how to accept the
verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for
yourself.
Believe me; you would be better off giving that
dedication & LoVe to someone more deserving.
Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible & let
your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as
well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today,
it means that someone better is coming tomorrow:
If you lose LoVe that doesn't mean that you failed
in LoVe.
Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears
wash away the hurt & the bitterness that the past
has left with you.
Let go of yesterday & LoVe will find its way back to
you & when it does, pray that it may be the LoVe
that will stay & last a lifetime.
Sigh!
I am still learning...
Life is Beautiful...
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